source By Tatyannah King on May 7, 2023
The BDSM test is a starting point to destigmatize #kinktok
Due to the lack of comprehensive sex education in America’s education system and general stigma regarding human sexuality, our society isn’t the most sexually literate. But the fact that BDSM is being discussed on TikTok to the point where the #kinktok hashtag has gained over 12.6 billion views and counting — not to mention the numerous videos including both informative and silly kink-themed content — says a lot about shifting generational perspectives toward sex.
People have a ton of questions and curiosities about how their bodies receive pleasure, and for many, TikTok (#kinktok) has become the digital space to delve into sexual self-discovery and sex positivity.
A mini-lesson on BDSM
You may have already gotten an idea of what BDSM is through its representations in pop culture like Fifty Shades of Grey and Rihanna’s “S&M” video, but here’s what it means in real life. BDSM is an umbrella term for sex acts that fall under the categories of Bondage/Discipline, Domination/Submission, and Sadism/Masochism. The acronym BDSM can be divided further into these categories:
- Bondage: The act of restricting a partner’s freedom of movement with ropes, ties, handcuffs, or other restraints
- Discipline: Agreed-upon rules and punishments for a dominant partner to exert control over a submissive partner
- Dominance: The act of showing dominance over a physical partner, either during sex or outside of the bedroom
- Submission: The act of showing submission to the dominant partner’s actions and wishes
- Sadism: Refers to pleasure that a partner may feel from inflicting pain
- Masochism: Refers to pleasure that a partner may feel from receiving pain
Though BDSM tends to be misunderstood and misinterpreted by the general population, it contains many common fantasies, like multi-partner sex and experimenting with power dynamics through role play. According to a 2016 survey of about 1000 people published in The Journal of Sex Research, nearly 47 percent of women and 60 percent of men have fantasized about dominating someone sexually.
now it goes viral?
BAHAHAAH! my latest BDSMtest.org results [corporate fuckery lost me my original email accounts due to changes in provider ToS, same ass censorship bullshit as today but the dark web was like regular facebook]
bdsmtext.org & its predecessors have been around since my puberty! where i jerked off to the classic sailor moon´s magic girl´s transformations… grew too short to be sailor Jupiter. but damn, green turned me on so badly & now i look amazing in a green dress. those where the good times, before… before the net YES I SAID IT! BEFORE the NET opening our minds to sex!
my oldest most used Wikipedia site: The List of Paraphilias once you know the clinical terms for fetishes & you can explain your own cuss you had a few years to wonder & then later during HS gossip figure out … lets just say i knew what turned who… 95% BS of course but that didn’t stop my imagination from fucking each & everyone in my mind; there is no one stopping a hypersexual sissy curiosity when wanting to know more about the sexualities of their classmates.
i was one of the first to actually know how many holes girls have!
its 10! girls have 10 holes for dick! 3 south. 5 in the face & 2 on the sides of their cute little heads!
“WADAFAK BRANDYNETTE! u off ur meds again? “
3 we all kno from southern biology: pee, poo & babies. in your face there are: mouth, nose & eyes & on the side’s top wise are girly cat ears!
“yep, she is off the meds again!”
When u, as me. has been member of the dolcett cooking grotto then you know that all holes of human bodies are dick holes if you are going to roast someone. ^^
pun pun punnn punnnn!
humble opinion about BSDMtest.org
suddenly i woke up & realized i had a fetish that didn’t make sense. why am i jerking off to sailor moon dying? why does that turn me on? i wasnt “corruped”, “groomed” or abused off in any way. i just saw certain perli scnenes taht got me a boner & keeping me trapped in that horny stat till i came all over myself…
What helped is actually finding the list of paraphilias on the wiki, back then there where like 12 parahilias jet no site explaining properly what a paraphilia is. everything was bleack, ur a psychopath & ur goint to end up hurting someone in the fulfillment of them.
terrifying thought for a “sexually frustrated closeted trans female” back in late 90s. WHAT THE FUCK AM I?
somewhere after the 2002 Gynemimetophilia was added so i solved one Aspekt of myself thanks to the knowledge of sexuality & much later when vorarephilia was added & the “gore death peril dolcett fantasies” where being lived out in creatively animated roleplays on our forums & i was able to be part of it without the detrimental fear of being complete sexual psychopath it also did wonders for my mental health!
This is why i say! Everyone on this planet vanilla or kinky AF should take the BDSM test with their sexual Partners! as a curious way of exploring one’s sexuality in community & a really great sex party game!
Specially now wit latest update of BDSMtest.org you can easily establish compatibility with your partner´s
i had a lot of fun with my bf & another cupple, it showed that all 4 where linked in a fetishist network pussing our orgams & fruking fun to points bejond what ive ever had during my solo shoots
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IF THERE IS INTEREST IN THIS TOPIC WITH SOME COMMENTS ENCOURAGING ME TO ACTUALLY DO A USER BASED STUDY THEN DONT HESSITATE TO SHARE & COMMENT TO GET ME MOTIVATED
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